So we’ve all seen guys do this in movies, give a woman the best time of her life effortlessly, so she has an orgasm that never seems to stop. Well the truth is, this is not just for celluloid heroes, simply put these techniques are easy to use and anyone can give their woman the most amazing sexual experience.
The first understanding is that it takes practice. The other thing is that you have to remember that sex is not just about a prolonged orgasm, it has other things too and you have to take care of the emotional side as well to let her free herself enough to have fun with you. Therefore, the atmosphere becomes very important. Prepare your place the way she wants. That can mean candles, scents, oils, or a variety of things. Just make sure she’s relaxed and comfortable. It sounds trite, but trust me, putting her mentally in the right mindset is halfway there.
The one thing most guys forget during foreplay is to use lubrication. Nothing ruins her condition more than not being wet enough when your fingers penetrate her. For those who don’t like the artificial feel of some of the more popular lubricants, natural oils are a great alternative.
You’ll focus on the most sensitive places at first, saving your breasts and clitoris for later. Most women love the feeling of warm, oily hands rubbing their spine, so it can be a good starting point for sensually contouring your spine. An added benefit is that it leaves you in a good position to talk dirty into your ear, stimulate your neck, or even your perineum or anus if you like to be touched.
Then it goes to the breasts, then to the clitoris. While most people know about the clitoris, what many don’t know is how powerful it is. It is possible to get a woman to have a squirting orgasm with just clitoral stimulation. The key is to know your wife. Every woman varies in the way she should be touched. Some will want you to touch it directly, others prefer it to touch the soft tissue around the clitoris. Explore different ways to touch her and see how she responds.
The woman can also control her arousal. If you have been doing Kegel exercises, alternate between long and short and fast contractions, allowing you to have some control over your pleasure. As she becomes more aroused, shove some well-lubricated fingers or a sex toy on her. Continue to stimulate your clitoris while internally stimulating it to the point where your vagina feels swollen and begins to contract. These two signs will tell you that she is definitely approaching a massive, real orgasm.
You should now move on to the G-spot. You want to constantly switch between clitoral and G-spot stimulation to keep turning her on more and more. Soon, the time between orgasmic waves will get smaller and smaller, until they start happening one on top of the other. This is the point where prolonging the orgasm really pays off and she has a continuous orgasm.
The best part is that each time she experiences it, it becomes easier for her to experience it again and more intense when she has another one. Soon you will be able to give her orgasms that will make her come back again and again.