I was surprised when I asked parents what life skills they would like their children to know, and there was an outright request that children learn how to open a bank account.

In the same way, there was a great call for:

  • How to budget and balance accounts
  • How to write checks and pay bills
  • And how to start saving for retirement

It seems that some of the things we take for granted are, as a result, missing from what we teach children.

This article is the first in a four part series and will look at the best and easiest way to start opening a bank account.

It sounds easy, but there are several questions that many people never think of that we will address in this article:

  1. Which bank?
  2. Checking or savings account?
  3. Are there minimum fees or stopovers?
  4. Should I get a debit card too?
  5. Do I have to have my name on the account with my child?

1. Choose a bank

When choosing a bank, there are a few criteria you’ll want to consider:

  1. Lease
  2. Number of branches
  3. ease of access

The location should be convenient to your home, but it should also have enough branches so that in case of an emergency, you can get to your bank.

I opened an account with Elevations Credit Union when I was attending CU Boulder. It was convenient and credit unions are really great for banking. However, after I graduated and moved, there were no branches around me, which made things very inconvenient. I ended up opening an account with US Bank since they are in almost all the King Soopers, where I do my shopping.

This is especially important with children because you don’t want them to have to drive too far just to get to the bank.

Similarly, ease of access to the branch is important. Having remembered a Norwest (now Wells Fargo) account, and getting in and out of the bank parking lot was terrible. I had several car accidents where I was close to losing and was afraid to even go to the bank.

2. Checking or savings account

As you will learn in the next article on saving and budgeting, there must be an account that is used for saving and investing.

That means it’s important to have BOTH checking and savings accounts.

The reason a checking account is important is so that children can learn to write checks and have a designated spending account as well as a designated savings account.

Checking accounts are important for paying bills (either online or by mail) and will give kids the opportunity to learn check writing. Even if check writing isn’t as frequent as it used to be, it’s still important.

I was out shopping one day and realized that I had forgotten my wallet, which had my credit cards and cash in it. I started to panic because I needed some food. Luckily I keep a couple of checks in the car and was able to save myself by writing a check…they still come in handy!

3. Commissions and minimum balances

Some banks charge fees for having an account and others do not. Obviously, get the one that doesn’t, as your child shouldn’t have a huge account. Also, make sure there is no minimum balance or a very small minimum balance ($10 or less).

Just as important is how overdrafts are handled!

When I was in college, it never failed: my classmates (who hadn’t learned how to balance an account) used to turn on their overdraft protection and the senior officers that went with it.

They would see their balance online and it would show $10. Then they checked it again a few days later and it was $30.

It was the magical growing bank account; and they never asked where the extra money came from. Until the end of the month when they had over $200 in overdraft protection fees!

I would suggest NOT getting overdraft protection and instead making sure they can balance your account (which we’ll cover in a future article).

4. What about a debit card?

Here’s my take on kids having debit cards: It makes it much, much harder to balance the bank account and it makes it much easier to overspend and get into trouble.

Are ATMs convenient? Yeah, but I’ve never worn one in my entire life. Part of teaching children life skills is teaching them to be prepared. I keep an extra $10 in cash plus some checks in my car. I wouldn’t mind if it was stolen.

If you’re determined for your child to get a debit card, wait at least six months after opening their account so they can learn “the old fashioned way” and understand how the debit card affects their account when they actually start using it.

5. Should I also be on the account?

I think it’s a really good idea for you to be on your child’s first account so you can monitor their spending and make sure they don’t lead to a train wreck.

It’s good to get statements so you can use them as a learning experience to go over them with your child and teach them how to properly dispose of them (in a shredder) to reduce the risk of identity theft.

Create a time frame or benchmarks until you retire from the account and let your child take responsibility for an individual account.

Opening a bank account is a big step into a new world for children and it should be a great experience. Guide your kids through the setup and look for learning opportunities along the way.

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