Not many people are aware of the fact that everyone, men and women, communicate more non-verbally (93%) than verbally. This is known as body language and if you know what to look for when you are trying to get to know someone, then you can find out if that person is really interested in you. This can help you cut down on your dating mistakes and avoid picking up the wrong signals. It takes no time to master and is well worth reading so you can find that special someone and never be left wondering again.
the basics of body language they are easy to learn and many of the signs to watch for will often be ones you recognize in yourself or in your friends or exes. You should practice looking for these cues in people close to you, as this will help you improve your body language skills. One big advantage of being able to read body language is that you can use the skill to decide if a girl or a guy is really interested in you and would be open to you asking them out. Or if a person you’re on a first date with wants to be kissed at the end of the night.
So here are the things to watch out for in a man or woman:
male body language:
Dilated pupils are a sign of attraction, especially if the man holds his gaze with yours.
-If the man is interested, he will make himself appear taller. He can also stand with his hands on his hips.
-If the man is fiddling with his belt buckles, it is a sign that he is subconsciously telling you that he is interested in you.
-If the man is mirroring your movements, this is a sign of attraction.
-If you’re standing with your hands on your hips, it looks like you’re getting bigger and ready to take things further.
-If the Man is touching the man’s arm or leg briefly, in a non-sexual way, when he speaks, this shows that he is interested, this is known as ‘excuse touching’
Female body language:
-Women also mirror movements and hold a gaze if they are interested in a man.
-A woman will often pull her hair, revealing her neck, if she is attracted to a man.
-If the woman rolls her hair with her finger when she talks to a man, then she is unconsciously sending a signal that she finds you attractive.
-If the Woman is using ‘excuse to touch’ – basically flirting in a very subtle way.
Negative body language to be aware of in men and women:
-Crossing your arms indicates a defensive posture and the person is not comfortable in your company.
-If the person has their hands clasped behind their back this may indicate apprehension or anger.
-If the person pinches the bridge of their nose with their eyes closed, this may indicate that they have a negative opinion of you.