So you see your ex girlfriend flirting with another guy. Most likely, she hooked up with this guy before she left you. You did almost everything to restore the broken relationship, but you didn’t get it. And now you are somewhat unable to deal with the feeling of regret.
I promise you won’t feel so bad after finishing this article. It takes time to forget someone you loved, but it is possible to erase them from your memory completely. It sounds impossible! No, it is not.
Steps to get over your ex girlfriend:
Step 1. Kill all chances to get her back –
This sounds a bit hardwired, but it’s not. If you want to erase her memory completely, you just have to start with this step which is to kill all hopes of getting her back.
It is not wise to take action based on temporary negative emotions. If you want to forget her when you see her flirting with one of your friends and you want to get her back the other time, then you should not read this article. It won’t help you.
So if you really want to forget her, kill all chances to get her back. Delete all your videos and photos from your computer and mobile.
Delete his number from your mobile. Don’t keep their gifts in your room. You have to get rid of them. Throw them out of your room or give them to someone else.
Repeat the phrase “I can’t get her back and it’s over” several times a day. Soon, you will feel better.
Step 2. Understand that she was not the perfect match for you.
Many people say that love is blind, and it is certainly true. Think about the situation where you fell in love with your ex. Do you think she was the best person you met at that time? Probably not!
Initially you knew that she was not the best person in the world and not even the best girls you came across.
It is quite possible that you liked another person at that time, but you could not attract her. You felt that you were not worth it to her, that’s why you settled for your ex who was the much lower option than expected.
Do you still think she was your soul mate?
Let me tell you the truth.
She left you and it’s good for you, because now you are free to find your true soulmate. It’s also good that she dumped you earlier and didn’t waste any more of your precious time.
Would it be a good thing if she kept the troubled relationship with you for a few more years and then left you?
Step 3. Find a better girl –
No, I’m not saying you’re in a rebound relationship. And I’m not saying do this step just to make your ex girlfriend feel jealous so you can feel good. No, it’s not.
I only ask you to improve yourself, read more about the dating game and raise your standard so that you can find a better replacement for your ex. After all, you don’t want to live alone.
If you manage to attract a girl who is much better than your ex girlfriend, you will soon forget about your ex. In this situation, you will not need to think about your ex.
People cry over spilled milk only if they can’t afford a new bottle of milk. If they can buy a new bottle of milk, they won’t regret the waste milk so much. This is how we humans think. This is how psychology works. And this is how you can forget your ex girlfriend.
Step 4. Make your ex girlfriend feel like she lost someone precious –
You feel down now because of your ex girlfriend, but what if you find a new girl and have a joyful relationship with her for the rest of your life? In this case, would you regret or feel bad when you see your ex with any other guy? Probably not!
Therefore, pay close attention to the third step and when you do, you must manage to send this news to your ex.
Don’t try to make her jealous and don’t say these things directly to your ex through a phone call. I am against taking revenge on an ex. But there is nothing wrong with spreading the news of your success and happiness to your ex.
To do this, you can use your mutual friends in a subtle way. However, you can also use your Facebook account.
Erasing an ex-girlfriend from your memory is not about repeating statements like ‘I’m going to get over her soon’. It’s about improving yourself, getting a better replacement, and then laughing at the situation where you had a troubled relationship with your ex-girlfriend.