“I miss my girlfriend. How do I get her back?” Does it sound like you? Is this the question that is burning you from the inside out?
Breaking up sucks! That’s falling short when the plan to break up is not yours, but your ex’s. If she surprises you by finishing things, you can react on instinct rather than with a tried-and-true plan.
Avoid major mistakes to get your girlfriend back
Some guys handle a breakup by doing everything they can think of to get an ex girlfriend back. This can include buying jewelry, sending flowers, begging and pleading, calling all of your friends, or even stalking. It can get ugly!
Then there are the men who deal with a breakup trying to forget. They start drinking more, using other girls to “fill the void”, partying all the time, spending money recklessly. Obviously, this only adds bigger problems to the misfortune of a broken heart.
Then there are the lazy ones who give up too easily. They would rather deal with the pain than do whatever it takes to get it back. These guys don’t want to part ways, but they’re not willing to go through hoops to fix things. But what if it’s worth a few earrings?
Get your girlfriend back in the easiest way
Luckily for you, great lessons have been learned from the guys who handle a breakup the wrong way. You can avoid common mistakes AND you don’t have to humble yourself in the quest to get back together with your girlfriend. With a proven plan, you can have it running back to you. Here are some expert tips:
- Stop calling for now. You don’t want to chase her or push her away, so start with the simplest step of all: don’t call her. This may seem easy at first, but it can be very difficult when your deepest male instincts say DO SOMETHING to get her back. Your happiness is at stake, right? Well, of course it is. But this plan requires you to start with inaction. In those romantic Hollywood movies, you see the guy chasing after his girlfriend, saying all the right things to make her give in. Well, in real life, chasing after a girl who just told you to die can give you a restraining order. How about approaching things this way? Stand aside for a while, allowing your room to cool down and have time to think about the relationship. Unless you’ve been nagging the whole time, she will remember the good points and start to miss them. Also, she will start to miss you.
- Make superficial changes. If you get a little carried away in your relationship, a few minor changes in appearance can help both boost your confidence and help you win back your girlfriend. You may not realize it, but women really notice these things. Start small like a nice haircut, a new jacket, or some nice pants. Maybe even a teeth whitening treatment that improves your smile. Next, take things up a notch by drinking less beer, avoiding late night pizza. Lift some weights (nothing major), join a gym, or play basketball to tone your upper body. You don’t have to become a heavyweight expert, but you can create noticeable changes quickly with just a little extra effort.
- Wait for her to come to you. Once you’ve given her space and used the time to improve her appearance, have her come closer to you. If you have mutual friends or live in a small town, people are sure to bring the news of your changes to your ex-girlfriend. If not, you can take a few small steps to organize it yourself. All you need to do is socialize regularly, go to places you both love, find ways to meet your friends. You can also post pictures on social media, just to show that you feel good and look your best.
Your ex girlfriend will go crazy imagining that you are better off without her. She will wonder what has changed everything, why you are having more fun than ever and if you miss her or not. She will want to see you for herself; and it will become increasingly difficult for him to resist the temptation to call you. Once you make that call or text, you’re in! Now, you just have to say the right thing for him to realize that you are Mr. Right.