I love the Internet, it’s a great place to learn new things. Unfortunately, sometimes when you want a simple answer, you have to go through pages and pages of text just to get to it. That’s why I’ve cut back on the nonsense and left you with the things that really matter. These are the main things that have helped me change my luck with women. I hope they work for you too.
#one. Stop chasing women. This is the biggest mistake all guys make. I know I did when I was younger and I’m sure you did too. Unfortunately, contrary to what you might think, it doesn’t help your chances. So, what to do? Well it’s easy, just relax and hang out with her. For a date, go somewhere where you can have fun. If you really like restaurants, then go there, but only if you want to. Instead of telling her about that new thing you bought, just start joking around with her. Have fun with women, this is not so serious, relationships should be fun.
#2. Look in your closet. Do you see? Are you still wearing the same stuff you had in the mid 90’s? Do you still have the same haircut you had in the 80s? Well, maybe it was okay then, but it’s time to change a few things. Look through the catalogs for ideas on what to wear and the type of hairstyle you might want. If you’re bold and can’t put together a haircut with what you have, maybe shave it off. Remember to wear the type of clothing that fits you well, don’t wear XL shirts if the M fits you well. I am 6 feet tall and wear all medium. Looking good together will definitely improve how you do with the opposite sex.
#3. Have some standards. I know too many men who will accept anything. This attitude is shown when they interact with women. It seems desperate. Sit down today, yes today, don’t wait, this is important. Write down what you are looking for in a woman, shop for physical and emotional characteristics. This way, your mind will know what to look for when you go out. Remember when you got a new car and suddenly you see it everywhere you go. It’s because you focused on it because when it was there it was easier for you to perceive it. The same with women, you will begin to search and find what you are looking for more easily. Women will also notice this change in your behavior and start acting differently around you. They will start looking for your approval and they will start to impress you because they will know that you are one of those butts who knows what he wants.
These tips are the core around which all other things revolve. None of the clever lines or anything like that can make up for the missing core, but if you have the right core, the other smaller things will fall into place.